by Miranda » Thu Feb 04, 2010 2:05 pm
I think you need to get somewhat crafty here.
Go into Settings, and for "Who can me as a friend" I think you can click No One- then no one can add you. My friend does this.
For your profile pic-- you may need to go in and delete it and then just not select a new one. I have been trying to do this, because for what I do for work I try to maintain more privacy (in case clients decide to look me up, which they sometimes do and then friend me, which I ignore).